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Misogyny Killed the Woman Star

October 10, 2016 by Ricardo Villarreal

virginia-woolfe-a-room-of-ones-ownCan you imagine how different (and better) the world would be today had women always enjoyed the same opportunities as men to freely exercise their creative genius and influence humanity through their works of literature?

In her celebrated book “A Room of One’s Own” (1929), Virginia Woolf lectures us on the injustices women writers suffered before the nineteenth century when it came to creating and producing fiction.

It also protests against how women were portrayed as characters in fiction books written by men. Remember, books were mass media back then and the negative descriptions of women further influenced how they were treated.

Puzzling to Virginia Woolf is why women were completely absent when it comes to the creation of extraordinary literature during the times of Elizabeth I (1558-1603), considered to many the most splendid age in the history of English literature. A period which also witnessed the genius of William Shakespeare.

But during that time, the archaic mentality of men was such a deterrent that they deemed impossible for any women to have the genius of Shakespeare.

And so it is here where Virginia Woolf debates this argument by creating the imaginary figure of Judith Shakespeare to masterfully address this terrible injustice. The hypothetical scenario of what would have happened had Shakespeare had a wonderfully talented sister demonstrates a contrasting parallel among the two.

In those times, the Shakespeare brother William would have easily sought fortune in London and would have freely practiced his art surrounding himself with everybody in the industry. Access to the royal family would have also been attainable.

On the other hand, his extraordinarily gifted sister Judith would have unfairly remained at home. Despite her genius and her unusual creativity, she would have never been sent to school. A monumental loss for humanity.

Without a doubt, a plethora of extraordinary talented women existed then (as they have always had), and it would be delusional to think the contrary.

But men, in their opposition to women emancipation, created a hostile environment where they would have ridiculed, humiliated, and made life a living hell to any woman who dared become a writer.

I absolutely agree with Virginia Woolf when she says, “Genius needs freedom; it cannot flower if it is encumbered by fear, or rancor, or dependency, and without money, freedom is impossible.”

That is precisely what her title “A Room of One’s Own” refers to. Give women a room of her own and the financial comfort that removes all obstacles from expressing her art and speak her mind; allow her the concentration needed in order to achieve prodigious work; suppress the unhappiness suffered by inequality that interferes with her creation; and we’ll see geniuses.

“Literature is open to everybody and there is no lock you can set upon the freedom of a mind”, says Virginia Woolf. And there should be no locks preventing the advancement of women.

Reading this book as a man made me think of the great damage we men have done in limiting women’s full potential, of all the wonderful genius creations by women that never flourished because of us men.

A lot has improved from the time Virginia Woolf published “A Room of One’s Own”, but us men today need to do more to make up for this tragedy and support feminism. There is no excuse.

Yes, this book was written almost 90 years ago! But its powerful message still echoes today as an inspiring instrument of the feminist movement, and it will continue to remain relevant at least until we reach full gender equality.

 

Filed Under: Arts & Culture, Books, Libros Tagged With: #DayoftheGirl, A Room of One's Own, Day of the Girl, equality, feminism, feminist, gender equality, gender rights, Judith Shakespeare, literature, protest, Virginia Woolfe, women's rights

Meaningful Life

August 12, 2016 by Ricardo Villarreal

Kalaloch Banner“He who has a Why to live for can bear almost any How.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

Many times I reflect on life and the things I have accomplished, the people I have influenced, the Love I have shared. I often ask myself, has my presence in this world been more favorable to it than if I were absent?

In other words, am I living a meaningful life? Finding meaning in our lives changes the whole game, fine-tunes our perspective, and improves our appreciation of life. Plus, it is also a key factor in achieving happiness.

I have been reflecting on this subject after reading “Man’s Search for Meaning” by Viktor Frankl (by the way, I would have chosen a gender-neutral title). He released his book in 1959 and it was strongly influenced by the years he spent imprisoned at four different concentration camps during World War II. The lessons in it remain very valuable today.

The most important point is that we can all find meaning in our lives regardless of the circumstances we face. External factors may take away all your possessions, but you are never truly left without anything as long as you can exercise your freedom to decide how you will respond to such conditions. Material things can always be restored.

Viktor Frankl’s book is in a way about survival, but survival as a result of the attitude we have towards life. From his experiences at the camp he realized that we do have a choice of action; that any prisoner, even in the worst conditions, can decide what shall become of him.

And that’s the great power we have! We must learn to make our lives meaningful constantly.

So what can we do to focus and find meaning? Viktor Frankl shares three different ways we can discover the meaning in life:

The first has to do with finding meaning in the work we do and in any endeavor we participate that goes beyond benefiting ourselves. How our actions add value in others is a palpable way to feel accomplished.

Secondly, we can also find meaning by experiencing beauty and by experiencing and sharing love. There is beauty in nature expressed in many ways. But also in art, in music, in poetry, in paintings… And then there is Love.

In searching for meaning, Love is the most essential part, the strongest force, the ultimate and the highest goal to which human beings can aspire.

Only Love can make us fully aware of the essential traits and potentialities of the person we Love, and vice versa. With Love we can enable those potentialities to become real and make our lives more meaningful.

The third has to do with the attitude we take when dealing with unavoidable suffering. If we cannot amend a situation (like an incurable disease) we can change how we choose to react and find meaning in this suffering.

Our past experiences also play a role in giving our lives meaning. Whether we have experienced pleasure or pain, we can learn from those experiences to improve our paths going forward.

No power on earth can take away our experiences and all we have done, and especially those moments that were blissful and full of joy: the witnessing of the miracle of life through the birth of your child, the first sight of a new exotic destination, the vivid memory of a magical kiss.

Our time alive in this world is very short, but our existence is in no way meaningless. There are many ways to transcend and reasons to be grateful, to feel alive, to do good, to Love, to help make the world a better place, to find meaning.

As Viktor Frankl cautions, “many people have enough to live by but nothing to live for; they have the means but no meaning.”

We are never too late in our search for meaning. We have the freedom to change and improve our attitude towards life at any instant.

Frankl also reminds us, “we are capable of changing the world for the better if possible, and of changing ourselves for the better if necessary.”

We have the power to decide what we want our existence to be and the meaning we want to give our lives. It’s 100% up to us.

 

Filed Under: Books Tagged With: books, finding meaning, Inspirational, love, Meaningful life, motivation, philosophy, positive, psychology, survival, Viktor Frankl

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